Westchester Most Eligible Singles: Arthur E. DiMella, Jr.

Most memorable date: Going to a shooting range


Arthur E. DiMella, Jr.​

Age: 46 Into: Women Location: White Plains Day gig: Mortgage banker Relationship history: Never married, no kids Described by exes as: A gentleman  Fun fact: Interviewed by Sports Illustrated Not up for: Internet dating Childhood career ambition: NFL linebacker  Funniest dating experience: His car being towed in New York City Most memorable date: Going to a shooting range

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I enjoy travel, books, and movies and do fitness training, play flag football, golf, and ski. My friends describe me as responsible, professional, and motivated—and kid me about being single and not eating junk food.  


Why I’m not an NFL player: I was too slow—running, that is.
Top movie in Netflix queue: The Shawshank Redemption
Guilty indulgence: Pizza
Quirkiest habit: Cleaning things off other people’s desks in the office
Favorite film: Glengarry Glen Ross 
Last book read: Calico Joe by John Grisham
Last meal request: Steak
Unusual fact: Was on a plane that made an emergency landing.
Dream vacation: Monte Carlo—a little beach and casino then a drive through Italy.


Fave place for a first date: Somewhere outside for coffee or a cocktail, maybe a walk afterwards.
Preferred special-occasion spot: 42 The Restaurant
First-date deal breaker: Being rude
Fave romantic date eatery: Harvest On Hudson
Worst date: Every blind date!


Must be: Easy to get along with, and smart, athletic, and funny.
Won’t be: Bossy 
Will have lots of: Confidence, honesty, and beauty

Interested in Arthur? Send an email to singles@westchestermagazine.com with your name, contact info, a recent photo, and some background information, and we’ll see what we can do!

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